Rev. Kyle Delhagen

Biography 

One of the things you learn growing up as the son of a minister, is that a pastor’s family is as much called to a congregation and place as the pastor themself. My wife, Elena, and our two children,

Jumah - 18, and Atticus - 8, not only keep me grounded and remind me of God’s love and joy every day, but they deepen my ministry in profound ways. As a husband, a biological father, and a father of an adopted daughter, my understanding of our relationship with God has been stretched, challenged, and changed in amazing ways.

My life of faith has been profoundly shaped by many people and in many places. As a young person, I found my spiritual life being influenced by the church family and friends I was always around. My church youth group provided many opportunities to study God’s Word, talk about what it means to be a Christian, and also to put our faith into action. Some of the most formational moments in my spiritual development were on service trips during school breaks to Staten Island to work with the homeless, hungry, and those suffering from HIV/AIDS. All of this set me on a very early path to ministry.

Throughout college, I struggled with my call to be a pastor. Having grown up as a pastor’s kid, I tried to avoid where I sensed God was pulling me, but when God has a desire for your life, it is hard to ignore! I spent six summers during and after college working at Camp Fowler in the Adirondacks, and then two years working in youth ministry before going to seminary at New Brunswick Theological Seminary in New Jersey. Following graduation from Seminary, I spent a year working as a Resident Chaplain at a Philadelphia Hospital, which taught me a lot about being a pastoral presence in times of grief and trauma.

In the few years following, I turned to teaching at a private Christian school in center city Philadelphia, where I taught tenth and twelfth grade English. During that time I was a part-time pastor of a small Reformed Church outside of Philadelphia. In that experience, I found myself drawn more and more to full time parish ministry. Since October of 2016, I have served as Pastor of Western Presbyterian Church in Palmyra, where I have continued to be challenged and stretched, finding fullness in this particular time and place of God’s family.

Monday Mailing 18

Welcome to the Monday Mailing #18 -   Borrowing from a Colleague Edition        The Reverend Jan Edmiston Ignoring What’s Going On in the World Will Kill Your Ministry I know. I know. I know. You find political sermons divisive.  Your church is “purple.” You pay your...

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Monday Mailing 17

Welcome to the Monday Mailing #17 -  The “Cats are Getting Needy” Edition  I don’t know who ever said that cats were aloof. . .mine certainly are not. Yes, one does hiss and hide, especially when there are men in the place. He has also taken to that very cat thing of...

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Monday Mailing 16

Welcome to the Monday Mailing #16 -   Sacred Time  I am most thankful for yesterday...and “mostly” having the Sunday off. It was a rich blessing to experience the worship the Presbytery of Boston put together and shared with the Synod of the Northeast. It was...

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Monday Mailing 15

Welcome to the Monday Mailing #15  -   Sacred Space  Most of us crave sacred spaces.    “In my own little corner. . .” sings Cinderella, “I can be whatever I want to be.” To have a place, a space that is comforting and safe, is a deep desire for humankind. How many...

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Monday Mailing 14

Welcome to the Monday Mailing #14 -   I Cannot Say it Better   This Monday morning, as I read a few things online before getting to the tasks of the day, I realized that I cannot say it better... than the Reverend Jan Edmiston did in her blog – A Church for...

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